I want to talk about something that took me an embarrassingly long time to take seriously: the dressing gown. Specifically, the fact that I'd been wearing the same one for nine years and had somehow convinced myself this was fine.
It wasn't fine. It was a thin cotton robe I'd bought in a supermarket sale, now greying at the cuffs, with a belt that had lost its loops on one side and a hood that had collapsed into a shapeless flap. I wore it every morning and every evening and thought nothing of it, because it had been so long since I'd had anything better that I'd forgotten better existed.
Then my sister visited for a weekend and, with the particular honesty that only siblings can deploy, looked at me in my robe on Saturday morning and said: "Harriet. Please. For yourself."
The Search
I started looking the following week. I had a clear brief: warm, properly warm, not the thin cotton that passes for a dressing gown in most supermarkets. A hood, because I have cold ears and I've always wanted a hooded robe and never had one. Something that looked considered rather than functional. And ideally something I wouldn't feel guilty about spending money on, which meant finding the right balance between quality and price.
I found the OLIVIA ROCCO Women's Shimmer Fleece Hooded Dressing Gown while browsing the Robes collection. The shimmer fleece caught my eye immediately — not glittery or showy, but with a subtle lustre that made it look more expensive than a plain fleece. The grey colourway was exactly what I wanted: neutral, goes with everything, doesn't show up every piece of fluff in the house.
Why This One
A few things made the decision easy. The 100% polyester shimmer fleece — I know polyester can sound like a downgrade, but in fleece form it's warmer and softer than cotton and holds its shape and colour through repeated washing far better. The hood was generously sized, not an afterthought. The stitching looked properly done in the product images — the kind of detail that tells you whether something is built to last or built to look good in a photograph and fall apart by February.
The size range — Small (UK 8-10) through X Large (UK 20-22) — meant I could order my actual size rather than making do with whatever was available. And it was machine washable, which for something I'd be wearing daily was non-negotiable. I've had robes that required hand washing and they've never been worn as often as they should be.
I ordered it. It arrived two days later.
First Impressions
I opened the packaging and put it on immediately, which I think is the correct response to a new dressing gown. The fabric was softer than I'd expected — that particular quality of fleece that feels almost liquid against the skin, with the shimmer giving it a slight weight and drape that plain fleece doesn't have. The hood sat properly on my head without sliding back. The belt had loops on both sides. These sound like basic requirements. They are. I'd been living without them for nine years.
I wore it for the rest of the evening. I wore it the following morning. I wore it every morning that week. By Friday I'd stopped thinking about it, which is the highest compliment I can give a piece of clothing — it had become simply the thing I put on, without any of the minor irritations that make you aware you're wearing something.
Three Months of Daily Use
I've washed it at least a dozen times. The fleece hasn't pilled. The shimmer hasn't dulled. The colour is exactly as it was when it arrived. The belt loops remain firmly attached. It dries quickly on a hanger and comes out needing no ironing — it just looks right.
The warmth is real. I live in a Victorian terrace that takes a long time to heat up in the mornings, and I used to rush through getting ready because standing still was cold. Now I make coffee, sit at the kitchen table, read for twenty minutes before the day starts. The robe is warm enough that I'm not in a hurry to get dressed. That sounds small. It has genuinely changed my mornings.
I've also started recommending it as a gift. My mother's birthday was last month and I ordered her one in a larger size. She rang me the day it arrived to tell me it was the best present I'd given her in years. I'm choosing to take that as a compliment rather than a commentary on my previous gift choices.
What's Actually Changed
My mornings are slower and better. I get up without dreading the cold. I have a proper slow start before the day begins rather than rushing to get warm. I look forward to the shower because I know what's waiting on the other side of it.
None of this is dramatic. But the accumulation of small daily pleasures is, I think, what quality of life actually consists of. A dressing gown you love wearing is one of those pleasures, and I'd been without one for nine years without quite realising what I was missing.
If you're in the same position — making do with something that's technically still a dressing gown but isn't really serving you — the OLIVIA ROCCO Women's Shimmer Fleece Hooded Dressing Gown is the upgrade you've been putting off. Find it in our Robes collection, alongside other options in Sleepwear & Loungewear and Clothing. It's also in Apparel & Accessories and our Latest Products if you're browsing what's new.
— Harriet Voss-Pemberton, freelance copywriter and reformed dressing gown martyr, writing from a kitchen table with a coffee and absolutely no intention of getting dressed yet.
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